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Face Up To Your Debts & Dont Hide From Them

by Barry Layton

It's just so easy to get in debt. Almost every week we're offered a new credit or store card and there's temptation everywhere we look. At first the demands and letters are easy to put to one side and forget about but as the debt gets older (and probably bigger) the demands get stronger and more and more difficult to forget about.

The first thing to do is to talk over the problem with and understanding friend or family member. It's no use choosing someone who will say 'I told you so' and make you feel even worse! Choose someone who you know is sympathetic and whose judgement you respect.

When you've actually accepted that there's a problem and the whole thing is out in the open it won't seem so bad. The next move will be to contact whoever you owe the money. They will look on you far more favourably if you contact them rather than them having to contact you. Ask if you can delay or reduce the payment. This will probably mean that the length of the loan is extended but that's something you'll have to accept.

When they suggest the new repayments make sure that it's within your budget. The first time that you fall into debt people are quite happy to help you but when it happens over and over again their patience wears thin. If you offer smaller payments than they ask but you're making them without fail then they will be happy with you.

Realise that you have been given a chance to put things right and if you blow it this time it will be far harder next time to gain the confidence of any company. Everything to do with your debt will be kept on file and will made available to other companies if you need credit at any time in the future.

If you've built up debts with a number of companies you can find someone who will consolidate them (put them together). As the debt will be larger it should be possible to negotiate a lower rate of interest and as it will be over a set period the repayments should be lower. Make sure that you're happier with all the commitments that this new loan puts on you (they'll be in very small print at the bottom of the paper work). If you have any doubts take the paper work to someone else and talk it over with them. Remember that this is over a fixed term and is just to pay off the debts that you already have. It's not like a credit card where you can add new debts to the old.

Depending on the size of the debt you may required to destroy all your credit cards. Even if you're not asked to, it's still a good idea. Work with cash and then once it's spent you can't be enticed to spend it again!

Barry Layton is the editor of "Debts Info" www.debtsinfo.com a premier debt information site on the Internet. Please visit for more information following this article.